Think about it: college applications from two different students lay side by side. Both college hopefuls have stellar GPA’s, both hold office in their respective Student Councils and both play varsity sports. But there is only one position to fill. Student A’s qualifications end right there. But Student B spearheaded a successful mentoring initiative at her school where incoming freshmen are individually paired with seniors to learn about what to expect in high school. Who do you think has the edge?
And how do you make your activities stand out in the few short lines on the application form? Focus on leadership! Don’t forget, this is one instance where it is OK to brag about yourself and your accomplishments. You’re the one filling out the application. The admissions folks aren’t going to be calling your grandmother to hear about what a brilliant and wonderful boy Billy is – they need to hear it from you.
And what about those college essays? On paper, test scores and lists of activities can only reflect so much of who you are. How can you make yourself stand out? Take the opportunity to let your personality shine in your essay! Don’t spend time pawing over what you think they want to hear—be real. Write about something that truly matters to you.
Don’t get stuck thinking you don’t have the grades or the mammoth list of activities to compete with your peers. Focus on what you do have to offer. Maybe you’ve never had an ear for music, and you’re not athletically coordinated, but you love to read. Take it beyond your English class - why not start and program at your local library, reading aloud to young children?
As for me, I know I’m just not built to play football. And when tryouts came along, there was nothing I could change about that - but I did use my sparkling personality to earn my position as school mascot. Did I take it as a consolation prize? No way! I found the position not only helped my popularity, but my presence on the field made me the subject for many photographers. Who knew I had such a natural knack for modeling? Just look – I’m a legend in my own time!
Embrace your individuality and find a way to utilize your unique gifts!
Woof,
Clyde
